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As a fellow Dad, let me encourage you in the strongest way: Of all of the people on planet earth, YOU should have the greatest impact on your children …… more than anyone else.

Consider the God of the Universe is referred to as “Father” …… not “mother” ….. not “nature” …… not “Big Entity in the sky” ……… etc.

Why does the Lord set up the relationship as “Father - Child”?

I Corinthians 11: 1

"Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ."

Don’t be fooled ………

Your children are watching. Your actions communicate and instill a value system to your kids. If you spend all of your time supporting activities that have little or no eternal value, don’t be surprised when they do the same.

“Fathers: Key to Their Children's Faith”

In short, the study reveals: “It is the religious practice of the father of the family that, above all, determines the future attendance at or absence from church of the children

Some key statistics

  • If both father and mother attend regularly, 33% of their children will end up as regular churchgoers, and 41% will end up attending irregularly. Only 25% of their children will end up not practicing at all.

  • If the father is non-practicing and mother regular, only 2% of children will become regular worshippers, and 37% will attend irregularly. Over 60% of their children will be lost completely to the church!

    By S. Michael Craven, Christian Post Guest Columnist

Dads ……… as far as your priorities, how important is being a great father to your kids?

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True or False?

“Children inculcate values and a Biblical Worldview from their parents and strong role models.”

Although this statement has some truth, consider the children of the Greatest Generation …... (ones that experienced WW2)

I hope that we could agree that the 60s generation is not known for their virtuous behavior.

Parents must intentionally disciple their children.

If you are raising young men, what is the destination? What is your vision? Have you explained this to them?

Has your son embraced a transcendent cause?

Rejects passivity - How does your son spend his time? The temporal or the eternal.

Accepts responsibility - Is your son taking ownership of his life and desired outcomes?

Consider the following graphical representation of “worldly” responsibility. This should be a “given.”

BUT, as a kingdom citizen, what does increasing spiritual / eternal responsibility look like?

Leads courageously - Does your son take leadership roles in his school, in his church, etc.?

Expects a greater reward - Does your son expect to be rewarded by the Lord for his sacrifice?

ANOTHER RESOURCE:

How I helped my boys to become Christian men?

https://frame-poythress.org/how-i-helped-my-boys-to-become-christian-men/

Engaging Questions at the Dinner Table Question Guide PDF

Bruce Simms (My son’s Sunday morning Bible Teacher) sent this to him via email

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